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R E F L E C T I O N S
For Motherís Day by Carmen B. Sibayan
Nanay was one person who set high s
As the only girl in the family, Nanay had special hopes and dreams for me that were different from those she had for my two brothers. Nanay wanted me to be a lady in every sense of the word and almost always required perfection of me.
Now I am not as particular
as my Nanay. I am a simple, carefree and spon
I believe that was one of the reasons that I unquestionably obeyed them even though there were times that I found Nanayís rules too confining. Still, I obeyed because I knew that it made the Lord happy, and I could see that it made Nanay happy, too. Besides, I didnít want anything bad to happen to me.
When I was in high school and even in college, I was hardly ever allowed to go out, much less stay overnight, with my friends even
for school activities. The one time that I was, our high school class was scheduled to have a field trip to
The night before the activity, however, Nanay said that if I went to Antipolo she would be so preoccupied with my safety that she would be unable to concentrate on her work as all she would be thinking about was me. Difficult as it was for me, I somehow knew that what she was saying stemmed out of her love for me. So I told her that I wouldnít be going on the field trip anymore and she was visibly relieved and happy.
Growing up with all those restrictions wasnít easy for me. Looking back, I could have rebelled. But I did not, for even as a young girl of six, I already had a special friend, Jesus, who I could talk to and lean on for comfort. Back then, I knew, as I do now, that Jesus would never leave me or forsake me. That Jesus was ever present in my life to listen to me, show me the way, and ease my burdens.
Nanay loved to tell people how easy it was for her and Tatay to train us, their three children, because we attended Bible study.
During Nanayís necrological service, I wanted to honor her by being the daughter she always wanted me to be: a true lady in every aspect. It was for this reason that I wanted to be profound yet personal in my eulogy. But where do I find the right words?
As always, God saw my heart and provided me with just the right words to say through the
I pray that Nanay is happy with the way I am now. It is thanks
to her that I am enjoying being myself while at the same time being cons